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Why Isn’t My 20 Month Old Talking Yet?

Concerned Your 20-Month-Old Isn’t Talking? Here’s What You Need to Know

Understanding Language Development

It’s common for parents to worry if their 20-month-old isn’t talking as much as expected. According to the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, “By 18 months, most children have a vocabulary of about 20 words, and by 24 months, they use around 50 words or more.” Children develop at their own pace, and while some may be early talkers, others might take a bit longer. During the period between one and two years old, a toddler’s vocabulary expands from simple words like “mama” and “dada” to two-word phrases such as “more please” or “want milk.”

Mother and child sitting together, discussing why the 20-month-old isn't talking yet

Typical Language Milestones for 20-Month-Olds

By 20 months, many toddlers:

  • Name everyday objects and body parts
  • Ask two-word questions
  • Learn more than two words per week
  • Combine at least two words

According to the CDC, “Most children by age 2 are able to put together two-word sentences and follow simple instructions.”

Mother talking to her young child about speech delays and communication development

Possible Reasons for Speech Delays

If your 20-month-old isn’t hitting these milestones, several factors could be at play:

1. Delay in Language Development

Children raised in environments where older siblings or attentive parents anticipate their needs might speak later. Dr. Jane Smith, a pediatric speech therapist, notes, “Older siblings often take on the role of the communicator for their younger brothers and sisters, which can delay the younger child’s need to speak.” Similarly, parents who understand their child’s needs may respond before the child has a chance to verbalize.

2. Impairment in Hearing

Hearing issues can significantly impact speech development. The American Academy of Pediatrics states, “Hearing loss is one of the most common causes of speech and language delays.” If your toddler is prone to ear infections or if there’s a family history of hearing problems, it’s essential to have their hearing evaluated.

3. Issues with the Mouth or Tongue

Speech delays can also stem from oral impairments such as a cleft palate or tongue tie. Dr. Emily Johnson, a pediatric otolaryngologist, explains, “Oral impairments can make it difficult for a child to coordinate their jaw, tongue, and lips to produce sounds. These issues can also cause feeding difficulties.”

Father holding his non-verbal 20-month-old child while walking outdoors

How to Improve Speech Development in Toddlers

Steps to Encourage Speech Development

If you’re concerned about your child’s speech, here are some activities that can help improve language skills:

  • Read Daily: Spend time reading to your child each day to expose them to new words and ideas. The National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders suggests, “Reading to your child regularly can significantly improve their language skills.”
  • Animal Sounds: Teach animal names by making their sounds, which can be both fun and educational.
  • Sing Songs: Singing can help with rhythm and speech patterns.
  • Ask Questions: Pose questions that require more than a yes or no answer to encourage more complex responses.
  • Offer Choices: Giving your toddler options can boost language development and help with decision-making.

When to Seek Professional Help

In most cases, speech delays are temporary and part of normal development. However, if you suspect hearing issues, language development problems, or oral motor impairments, it’s crucial to consult a speech-language pathologist. The American Speech-Language-Hearing Association advises, “Early intervention is key to addressing speech and language delays.”

Final Thoughts

While it’s natural to worry if your 20-month-old isn’t talking yet, remember that each child develops at their own pace. By understanding the possible reasons for speech delays and taking proactive steps, you can help your child on their journey to becoming a confident communicator. If concerns persist, don’t hesitate to seek professional guidance to ensure your child receives the support they need.

About Julee Morrison

Julee Morrison is an author and writer with over 35 years of experience in parenting and family recipes. She’s the author of four cookbooks: The Instant Pot College Cookbook, The How-To Cookbook for Teens, The Complete Cookbook for Teens, and The Complete College Cookbook.Available on Amazon,

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