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5 Conversations You Must Have With Your Son

About the Book: 5 Conversations You Must Have with Your Son

In “5 Conversations You Must Have with Your Son,” author Vicki Courtney provides essential guidance for parents looking to foster healthy, open, and meaningful dialogues with their sons. This book is a valuable resource for parents who want to connect with their sons on a deeper level and equip them with the tools they need to navigate life’s challenges.

Author: Vicki Courtney

  • Vicki Courtney is a renowned author and speaker known for her expertise in parenting and youth-related topics. With a passion for helping parents raise confident and responsible sons, she has written numerous books that provide practical advice and insights.

Book Overview

  • Prep Time: None – Dive right in!
  • Chapters: 5 Conversations
  • Pages: Varies by edition
  • Published: First published in 2008, updated editions may be available.
  • Genre: Parenting, Family, Self-Help

Why This Book Matters

  • History of the Book: Vicki Courtney’s book has been a trusted guide for parents seeking to nurture healthy relationships with their sons for over a decade. It has received acclaim for its practicality and relevance.
  • Versions: The book may have different editions or versions, each potentially updated to address contemporary issues and parenting challenges.

Key Conversations

  1. Becoming a Man: Discusses the transition from boyhood to manhood, including responsibility, respect, and character development.
  2. Purity: Addresses the importance of maintaining purity in relationships and understanding the significance of respect for oneself and others.
  3. Peer Pressure: Explores strategies for dealing with peer pressure, making wise choices, and standing up for what’s right.
  4. Dating: Offers guidance on navigating the complexities of dating, relationships, and setting healthy boundaries.
  5. Work and Money: Provides insights into teaching sons about financial responsibility, work ethic, and stewardship.


Have a Seat, Son. It’s Time for Us to Have THE Talk…

As a mother, I have truly been blessed with three sons. Each is very different. Each holds my heart and rules my soul. Two have gone through adolescence. It wasn’t turbulent. There were highs and lows, but it defined each of us and we tackled the challenges one step at a time. Li’l Man is my baby, he is five, and my final boy. Vicki Courtney’s book, 5 Conversations You Must Have with Your Son is my new road map to the finale of raising my children.
5 Conversations You Must Have With Your Son

5 Conversations You Must Have with Your Son covers some tough topics, but Courtney pulls them off with personal experience, humor, scriptures, and research. It’s not just a one-time read but a great resource as the topics are ones that are on-going in raising a boy to a man.

  • Don’t define manhood by the culture’s wimpy standards; it’s okay to be a man!
  • What you don’t learn to conquer may become your master
  • Not everyone’s doing it! (And other naked truths about sex you won’t hear in the locker room.)
  • Boyhood is only for a season. P.S. It’s time to grow up!
  • Godly men are in short supply—dare to become one!

I value that Courtney shares her own experiences raising two sons. A candid glimpse into another Mom’s world with research backing her up makes for an informative read. I can attest, from my own experience, that raising a child isn’t easy. It takes love, perseverance, trial and error and a whole lot of prayer to encourage and empower them into being the great man they have always been destined to become.

On page 43, Courtney discusses helicopter parenting. I accuse my husband of this behavior all the time, however, on the list, I discovered three of the “offenses” I owned. I was concerned, but Courtney assured me that it is natural to have these tendencies. It’s about finding balance. This is what I love about 5 Conversations You Must Have with Your Son, it’s not a lecture. It’s a reassurance that, as parents, we’re going to get through this.

The tone and flow of this book made me feel like I was having lunch with Courtney as we discussed our sons and the lessons we’ve learned, the trials we’ve face, and the love with which we consume them.


Storage: The book itself doesn’t require storage, but the knowledge and insights gained from it can be stored in your mind and heart for future reference.

The wisdom imparted by this book can be applied throughout your son’s life, offering ongoing guidance and support.

FAQs for the Book

  1. Is this book only for parents of sons? – While it focuses on conversations with sons, the principles can be applied to any parent-child relationship.
  2. What age is this book suitable for? – It’s most relevant for parents of pre-adolescent and teenage sons.
  3. Is this book religious in nature? – Vicki Courtney is a Christian author, and her faith may influence some content, but the book’s advice is broadly applicable.

Known Alternate Names for the Book

  • “Conversations with Your Son”
  • “Parenting Boys: The 5 Must-Have Talks”
  • “Guide to Raising Sons: 5 Essential Conversations”

*I received a copy of 5 Conversations You Must Have With Your Son. No other compensation was received. The opinions, where expressed, are my own and were in no way influenced by the sponsor. Others experiences may vary.

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