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No Kids Allowed Is It Stating the Obvious or Discriminating?

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We have a large family, half of our children are under the age of ten. Most of the time, we travel and dine together. It has always been this way. Date night is a rarity, y’know, where we actually leave the children and engage in adult activities like movies with a rating above a PG rating and dine at restaurants where they don’t have a children’s menu.

Not long ago, my husband and I were enjoying a date night. It had been a pleasant evening and we were really enjoying the time together without our children. We indulged in dinner at a restaurant we had both been wanting to try to power up our movie tickets to 3D IMAX.

 Not long into the movie, there were familiar sounds of whining and crying. It wasn’t our child, nor was the rating on the movie child-friendly. We expected the parents would be removing their child. We had no such luck. The child continued, eventually starting a domino effect with other children in the theater. It was difficult to focus on the movie and we missed a great deal of dialogue between the characters.
no children allowed sign
Following headlines, it seems we aren’t the only people seeking a child-free experience. It has become a movement many are calling the Brat Ban. Businesses who once welcomed children are banning them. Businesses like restaurants, hotels, airlines, and some movie theaters.
 
Many feel families are being discriminated against with this movement. Perhaps this is a general statement. In our community, drive-through strip centers and restaurants show that families are thriving. There’re Kid’s Eat Free Nights and family passes being offered.
 
The fact that children are being banned is astounding. Is it that we have failed to parent?  In 2010, North Carolina’s Olde Salty restaurant didn’t ban children, instead, owner Brenda Armes posted a sign that read “Screaming children will not be tolerated” read about it on CBS News. The restaurant enforces the sign, making it clear to parents when their kids scream, they’ll be asked to take them outside.

Bars have long posted that individuals under 21 are not allowed, but there has never been this frenzy of cries calling “discrimination”.  It should be a given that there are just some places that are committed to an adult-only experience. Bars and rated R movies are examples, but it doesn’t end there. If parents can’t see the boundaries of what adult-only establishments are, does this No-Kids-Allowed movement then just make it clear or are they discriminating?

About Julee: Julee Morrison is an experienced author with 35 years of expertise in parenting and recipes. She is the author of four cookbooks: The Instant Pot College Cookbook, The How-To Cookbook for Teens, The Complete Cookbook for Teens, and The Complete College Cookbook. Julee is passionate about baking, crystals, reading, and family. Her writing has appeared in The LA Times (Bon Jovi Obsession Goes Global), Disney's Family Fun Magazine (August 2010, July 2009, September 2008), and My Family Gave Up Television (page 92, Disney Family Fun August 2010). Her great ideas have been featured in Disney's Family Fun (Page 80, September 2008) and the Write for Charity book From the Heart (May 2010). Julee's work has also been published in Weight Watchers Magazine, All You Magazine (Jan. 2011, February 2011, June 2013), Scholastic Parent and Child Magazine (Oct. 2011), Red River Family Magazine (Jan. 2011), BonAppetit.com, and more. Notably, her article "My Toddler Stood on Elvis' Grave and Scaled Over Boulders to Get to a Dinosaur" made AP News, and "The Sly Way I Cured My Child's Lying Habit" was featured on PopSugar. When she's not writing, Julee enjoys spending time with her family and exploring new baking recipes.
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