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My Kiddos Cry Civil War on Each Other with American Tourister

Sibling rivalry is an all too familiar concept at our house. I acknowledge that the responsibility for dealing with it lay in my hands, however, now that summer’s here, the constant of it may wear me down.There are days the siblings at my house snitch on the other in an attempt to defame the other, while other days they reside amid a cold silent treatment. I don’t view it as horrible. Sometimes it’s playful. Sometimes it’s competitive one-upmanship. It is always fierce.I say this because a few weeks back, Johnny Cash came into ear range of my kiddos on a Bluetooth shuffle. His throaty, deep voice is belting out the lyrics to “I’ve Been Everywhere.” A great song, with a long list of places he’s been. My kiddos listened, and then it started.”I’ve been to more places than you.””No, you haven’t!””Yes. Yes, I have; ask Mom!”

So, let’s take those lyrics and narrow them down to where my kiddos have been:

  • Reno
  • Wichita
  • Tampa
  • Pocatello
  • Monterey
  • Tennessee
  • Spirit Lake
  • Louisville
  • Richfield
  • Idaho
  • Pittsburgh
  • Rexburg
  • Nebraska
  • Kansas City
  • Cedar City

It’s a lengthy list of children ages 10 and 12.

I thought this would push the banter out.

I was wrong.

I know my children didn’t invent sibling rivalry. Let’s face it; it’s been here for a very long time-Cain and Abel, the Boleyn Sisters. My kiddos are merely perfecting its art.

While they were still in full rivalry mode, we pulled into the movie complex, and there was silence as we watched Captain America Civil War–a good movie by the way.

Ironically, I realized that perhaps Civil War was another name for Sibling Rivalry. I mean, in the Marvel Universe Tony Stark and Steve Rogers are essentially siblings in their family of superheroes; right?!

On the walk out to the car, a new battle was blooming.

“Team Iron Man is best!”

“No. Team Captain America is best!”

“Na-uh!”

“Uh-huh!”

Thanks to the folks at American Tourister, this summer we’re having a full-fledged battle.

Luggage Civil War

That’s right.

To end this once and for all, I challenged them to “pick a team” and “let the Civil War begin.”

Their mouths dropped open; their eyes grew wide.

“I mean it. Pick your side.”

“I’m absolutely Team Iron Man,” said Little Man.

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“I’m Team Captain America,” chirped Miss M.

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We sat down with maps and figured out states traveled by each.

One by one the kiddos asked about the 50 states. One by one we answered.

Li’l Man (Team Iron Man went first):

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He tallied 21 states.

Impressive for a ten-year-old.

His sister (Team Captain America) went next.

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Her tally–22 states.

She went to Montana as an infant when we went to Yellowstone.

That was it. That one state made the difference.

Li’l Man was on the phone with his grandpa, wanting to know if he could go to Niagara Falls this summer during his two weeks at Camp Grandma and Grandpa.

Grandpa said, “Maybe. That might be a great idea.”

Then with the stink-eye aimed at his sister, Li’l Man added, “Canadian side.”

It may take a while for this sibling rivalry to end. Y’know, since we’re a family and pretty much scheduled for the same destinations–together.

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Regardless, we’re traveling in style with the American Tourister Marvel series, reminding us that even with big smiles and memories to be made, there’s a rivalry ready to ignite.

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Follow along this summer, as we hit the road to see if one kiddo can outdo the other as we travel.

Where are you headed with American Tourister?

I received American Tourister in exchange for this post. The story, opinions, and ideas are all my own.

About Julee Morrison

Julee Morrison is an author and writer with over 35 years of experience in parenting and family recipes. She’s the author of four cookbooks: The Instant Pot College Cookbook, The How-To Cookbook for Teens, The Complete Cookbook for Teens, and The Complete College Cookbook.Available on Amazon,

Her work has appeared in The LA Times, Disney’s Family Fun Magazine, Bon Appétit, Weight Watchers Magazine, All You, Scholastic Parent & Child, and more.

Her article "My Toddler Stood on Elvis' Grave and Scaled Over Boulders to Get to a Dinosaur" appeared on AP News, and her parenting piece “The Sly Way I Cured My Child's Lying Habit” was featured on PopSugar.

Outside of writing, Julee enjoys baking, reading, collecting crystals, and spending time with her family. You can find more of her work at Mommy’s Memorandum.