Divorce is always challenging, but let’s face it – it’s becoming more and more common every year. More and more people take action to leave unhealthy marriages, stop abusive relationships, and look for a better life. If you’re in a similar situation – nothing should stop you from doing what you need. But why is it that many women can’t end a toxic marriage?
Here are some of the most common reasons. Read on to become stronger and finally make this important step.
Divorce can be a financial burden for many women, and it’s one of the most common reasons why a woman wouldn’t end a marriage. Whether you stopped working during the marriage or simply don’t earn enough, arguing your case in court on a budget is rarely possible.
However, it doesn’t mean that you should stay in an abusive relationship. There’s a solution for every problem, and yours is not an exception. There are law firms and non-profit organizations that are willing to help – you can find them online: for example, explore Survive Divorce’s DIY divorce hub.
Kids are also one of the reasons why people don’t end unhappy marriages. However, it’s not true that staying together is right for your children – in reality, it’s the other way round. A high-conflict environment, where the kids are not respected, can make their lives a lot worse than having two divorced parents.
While having a full family is beneficial for the kid’s mental and physical health, it’s even more beneficial for them to have parents who love and respect them and each other. So, if you’ve tried hard, but your marriage is not working out – don’t worry about ending it just because of the kids.
Religion & Common Opinion
Religious people often have stronger moral beliefs in marriage – which is why they’re less likely to file for divorce. And it’s good – it means that you will try hard to make it work. However, neither your moral beliefs nor a religious background should make you stay in an abusive relationship. What other people think should never matter when it comes to your mental and physical well-being. However, if you have difficulties going against your beliefs, contacting a therapist might be helpful.
Divorce is never easy; however, deciding on filing a divorce can be even more difficult. Don’t hesitate to seek help if you need it, especially if you’re in an abusive relationship. And if you still think that kids’ life after divorce is always difficult – check this infographic provided by SurviveDivorce.